I think I've made some difficult decisions, but they're the type that would be weighted differently than yours. Probably.
The captain of my unit changes depending on the situation, and when I'm captain, I sometimes have to make decisions that I feel are good decisions as a captain, but poor decisions as a friend.
I've learned that even when others are against my decision, or I realize I could have made a different, possibly better choice, I don't regret it because I put a lot of thought into it. I made the best choice I could.
So, I know that's not really the same as your situation, but I think it was important for me to learn that I'm not an omniscient being. I will fail, and I will make choices that could have been better. I can't really do anything about that. But, what I can do is make sure each choice I make is one I've thought through, and that it was made considering all the information I had at the time.
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The captain of my unit changes depending on the situation, and when I'm captain, I sometimes have to make decisions that I feel are good decisions as a captain, but poor decisions as a friend.
I've learned that even when others are against my decision, or I realize I could have made a different, possibly better choice, I don't regret it because I put a lot of thought into it. I made the best choice I could.
So, I know that's not really the same as your situation, but I think it was important for me to learn that I'm not an omniscient being. I will fail, and I will make choices that could have been better. I can't really do anything about that. But, what I can do is make sure each choice I make is one I've thought through, and that it was made considering all the information I had at the time.