It's the least I can do. We... don't exactly have something like that where I'm from. Not outside of Valinor, at least., and even there it's more of a... spiritual healing, I suppose. I'm not much of a healer, that is true, but I do understand what it's like to struggle with these things.

[And he doesn't want anyone to have to dit alone.]

No. Your options are unfortunately limited in that way. It is awful, fighting a war that never seems to end and where the odds are so stacked against you is a very lonely thing. Don't worry about 'puting me down,' as you say, my feelings are not so easily bruised as that. It is only the truth you speak, after all.