third entry ⊗ anonymous: dating advice

[flamekthunder]

Sender: Anonymous (Eustace)
To: Everyone EXCEPT TIFA
Subject: Dating Advice

Requesting dating advice.

[ooc: yep that's it that's the post, and it is anonymous! Eustace also can't believe he's doing this but boy he needs it. Those who respond can either be anonymous or have their handle visible. Threads are also completely open to anyone so they can see responses. Eustace's responses will be anon by default (don't make me put the label every time please—)]

Comments

Sender: Marui

[volleygenius]

Be yourself.

Have fun together.

Respect boundaries.

Bring them presents when you see them.

Smell nice.

[flamekthunder]

Most of these I've heard, but is the last one necessary to point out? I would have assumed it to be a given.

[Or well, not specifically "smell nice" just shower and refreshed and all that.]

[volleygenius]

Then why are you asking for advice? Sounds like you already understand.

[flamekthunder]

[...Is this person serious... Or had he really been overestimating the whole dating thing?]

Given I've never dated anyone before nor even entertained the notion of having a romantic relationship, I thought it better to seek advice from those who have rather than rush off on my own judgment.

[volleygenius]

Simpler than you thought it'd be, right?

[flamekthunder]

Somewhat. Usually from what I hear from my female colleagues and others, they tend to expect more.

[volleygenius]

Like what?

[flamekthunder]

Fancy dinners, expensive gifts, special outings. Not all the time, but it seems to be a common topic.

[volleygenius]

I dunno. Different people like different things. What matters is making THEM feel special, isn't it?

[flamekthunder]

Fair enough.

At the very least you've confirmed my own thoughts, so I appreciate the input.

[volleygenius]

Anytime.