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dreamcrystals2022-12-09 10:14 am
crystalized_hope) wrote in dreamcrystals2022-12-09 10:14 am
For the Dancing and the Dreaming
Sender: G'raha Tia (and Madhuri Qalli occasionally)
Subject: An announcement & inquiry
Hello, Reverein. This is G'raha Tia, and I am pleased to announce some exciting news.
[Ignore the fact that his writing seems to be hesitant. He had it in his mind to make this announcement with the intention of asking for some help. It just seemed so daunting now that he was actually doing it. In fact, there is some pause in between writing the next portion.]
Right then... Out with it... Madhuri Qalli and I will be getting married sometime this upcoming spring. While we have not settled on a date just yet, we would ask for a favor from all of you.
Despite the beautiful wedding that Eustace and Tifa put on, we are -- unfortunately -- unversed about how to plan for such an occasion. We did find some inspiration from the wedding not to long ago, but we would ask for your help.
How do you celebrate matrimony in the world you come from? What about cultural differences? This information would greatly benefit us to plan our own special day that suits us best. If you have anything to share, please feel free to contact either one of us. Thank you for your time.
[OOC: Both G'raha and Madhuri will be responding to this. If you want to speak to one of them, please let us know in the subject.]
Subject: An announcement & inquiry
Hello, Reverein. This is G'raha Tia, and I am pleased to announce some exciting news.
[Ignore the fact that his writing seems to be hesitant. He had it in his mind to make this announcement with the intention of asking for some help. It just seemed so daunting now that he was actually doing it. In fact, there is some pause in between writing the next portion.]
Right then... Out with it... Madhuri Qalli and I will be getting married sometime this upcoming spring. While we have not settled on a date just yet, we would ask for a favor from all of you.
Despite the beautiful wedding that Eustace and Tifa put on, we are -- unfortunately -- unversed about how to plan for such an occasion. We did find some inspiration from the wedding not to long ago, but we would ask for your help.
How do you celebrate matrimony in the world you come from? What about cultural differences? This information would greatly benefit us to plan our own special day that suits us best. If you have anything to share, please feel free to contact either one of us. Thank you for your time.
[OOC: Both G'raha and Madhuri will be responding to this. If you want to speak to one of them, please let us know in the subject.]
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If you want to make it personal... I'd say just think of your interests, both shared and individual.
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[But then that does bring up a concerning thought.]
Oh. I just hope she doesn't think she needs to do all of the cooking and baking... I don't mind if she chooses to do it herself, but preferably not all of it. I'd rather she didn't stress herself over a monumental task.
[Nothing that Eustace will hear, but there is a tired sigh on his end. One that he'll gesture as nothing if Madhuri asked what it was for.]
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Just make some kind of compromise. If there's a special dish that you two enjoy or you'd like to share, she can make that. The rest of the food can be provided by various restaurants and eateries in town.
It would be similar to how Tifa and I handled it. The Wild Harvest helped prepare the food and a friend made the cake. Tifa normally cooks, but I made a few special dishes to surprise her at the reception. But that was all.
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[If she can fuss over him overworking himself at times, then surely it was his right to insist on this course of action.]
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[He won't make it a habit of asking him for help necessarily, but there might be times where he'll need it.]
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