third entry ⊗ anonymous: dating advice

[flamekthunder]

Sender: Anonymous (Eustace)
To: Everyone EXCEPT TIFA
Subject: Dating Advice

Requesting dating advice.

[ooc: yep that's it that's the post, and it is anonymous! Eustace also can't believe he's doing this but boy he needs it. Those who respond can either be anonymous or have their handle visible. Threads are also completely open to anyone so they can see responses. Eustace's responses will be anon by default (don't make me put the label every time please—)]

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[silentends]

There are nice places here you just have to keep looking.

Even a quiet relaxing place would be great!!!



[ just what eustace likes PEACE AND QUIET. ]

[flamekthunder]

[QUIET AND RELAXING WOULD BE GOOD YES. Hmm.]

I can think of a few places, but I had wondered if it would be too simple. Given what everyone has said so far, perhaps it's not so much.

[silentends]

Sometimes the simple things in life are the most important.

As long as you stay true to yourself it'll be okay!

[flamekthunder]

I take it you have experience?

[He asks, while staring at Nier's name. Does he—]

[silentends]

I have experience with corgi but that's probably not what you're going for.

[ He loves the corgi it's not the same as being in an involved relationship with a significant other. ]

[flamekthunder]

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Yet you seem so confident.

[silentends]

That's because I've seen it work

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For other people.

[flamekthunder]

And how often have you seen that?

[silentends]

Often enough to know it'll work!


I would do a lot of errands back home and there was this one couple that helped me find work. They always fought a lot but that was because they were really close.

One time they even invited me over to dinner and it was great.

So spending time with the ones you love must be important!

[flamekthunder]

[...

Nier please.

He's not wrong, but... But...]

I won't disagree, though there's probably more to it than that.

[silentends]

Then what would it be?

If there's more to it I'd like to hear your thoughts.

[flamekthunder]

If I knew, I wouldn't e be asking for advice.

[He had to throw that out there—BUT.]

However in my personal opinion and from what I've seen, communication is also important. Not smothering each other would also be important...there will be times when each person will want their own space, so respecting boundaries would also be important.

[silentends]

You're right about all those things.

What else have you learned so far? I hope that your conversations have been fruitful.

[flamekthunder]

Mostly along those lines and suggestions for dating activities.

But it has been fruitful, yes.